Shared Sibling Room - How To Do It Right?

 

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Today, following several requests, we will share some thoughts and insights concerning a shared sibling room design.

Anyone who has ever shared a room with their brother or sister knows this is quite challenging. It starts with quarrels over space issues, moves through disputes concerning object ownership, and ends with matters of privacy and mood swings.

When I was a kid, my sister and I would argue over the tiniest things, like who got the top bunk or whose toys were whose.

Undoubtedly, the issue of siblings sharing a room is a common challenge for many parents out there. We understand the potential for increased hostility and the stress it can cause, leading to some not-so-great places. We're here to let you know that this is a shared experience, and you're not alone in this.

In this article, we will equip you with all the practical tips and tricks that will help you (and them) navigate this challenge most enjoyably. These are not just theoretical ideas but practical solutions that you can implement, empowering you to create a harmonious shared sibling room.

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'Opposite gender siblings who share a room.'

'Siblings with age differences that share a room.'

'Does sharing a room bring siblings closer together?'

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1. Make Things Clear!

 

American poet Margaret Elizabeth Sangster once said:

 

"In The Whole Round Of Human Affairs, Little Is As Fatal To Peace As a Misunderstanding."

 

The number one tip concerning shared sibling rooms is the prevention of misunderstandings. Whether innocent or intentional, these can be a major source of tension and conflict.

Since most quarrels between siblings start over ownership disputes - ("This is my dresser,"/"This is my game,"/You are invading my part of the shared bed!!"/Your clothes are scattered all over, and I have no room for myself." And more. A lot more, mixed with yelling and whining...) - the solution will only come through a strict clarification of 'things.'

The more misunderstandings concerning these issues, the more tension will increase accordingly.

Do as much as you can to avoid these quarrels by rigidly clarifying anything that could be interpreted vaguely, Thus leading to unfortunate misunderstandings.

'How?' you must be asking.

By what we call: 'The premises method.'

This method essentially involves defining specific areas or 'premises' within the shared room to eliminate potential misunderstandings.

Under the 'premises method,' Premises A will be associated with Tenant A and Premises B will be associated with Tenant B, ensuring a fair distribution of space and resources.

Additionally, a shared area, or Premises C, will also be clearly defined. This shared space encourages siblings to interact and cooperate with each other.

The same goes for objects (for example, toys): there will be those associated with tenant A and those associated with tenant B, and some will be shared (a first-come, first-served model, limited in time of use).

 

That's mine, and that's yours!

 

By the way, indoor room dividers are versatile tools that can empower you to implement separation principles in your home. They come in various types, such as folding partition privacy screens, indoor canopies, fabric room panels, and more, offering a range of design options to suit your needs. 

Here , you can find more about indoor room dividers. Our goal is to provide you with information and solutions to help you create separate spaces in your home. We also encourage you to share your own experiences and tips in the comments section below.

 

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2. Space.

 

Minimalism expert Francine Jay once said:

"Your Home Is Living Space, Not Storage Space."

 

'Space' is one of the essential aspects concerning any shared sibling room design, and it does not matter if we are talking about opposite-gender siblings who share a room or even siblings with age differences who share a room. It is crucial in any scenario.

Research shows that an organized space can significantly enhance children's and parents' peace of mind, making the shared sibling room a more harmonious environment.

And given that peace and quiet are definitely positive elements in any shared sibling room - anything that will help you achieve more is more than welcomed. Therefore, creating, design-wise, more space is one of the most significant tasks within your shared sibling room. 

It's also quite intuitively obvious - When your child has his own private space within his room, it's quite likely that his sense of peace will increase accordingly, ultimately leading to more calmness within the shared room.

Just remember to properly combine this space issue with the clarifications mentioned in the paragraph above - once you have created a space - make it clear to whom it belongs and when.

You can also read the article from our sweet blog, which contains four tips that will help you create more free space in your home.

One of the most powerful tools in your arsenal for creating space is the strategic use of storage solutions . By using them wisely, you can maximize the free space within the room, giving your children a more spacious and organized living area. 

It's doubly relevant due to children's tendency to throw and scatter things around their room. 

 

Free space - create as much as possible!

 

Here, you can find 19 creative storage Ideas to solve your small-space problems.

You can also use the famous design method known as "minimalism," which will further help you with this issue.

When it comes to designing a shared sibling room, it's crucial to consider the 'space' aspect significantly and in advance.

This proactive approach will ensure that you create a peaceful and organized living space for your children. 

 

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3. Involve Them In The Process.

 

An ancient Chinese scholar once said:

'A Good Conversation Can Solve A Thousand Crises'.

 

If you're scratching your head wondering right now, it's because you're right - no Chinese scholar has ever said such a quote - we just made it up. But the guiding principle is still valid - Your child's involvement with his room design process can significantly contribute to the procedure's success.

Before embarking on the design process, it's crucial to ask your children how they envision the end result.

Research shows that involving children in decision-making is a key factor in the success of any collaborative process. It will boost their confidence and ensure a more satisfying outcome for all.

 

Engage them in the process!

 

Besides the immediate benefit that will come due to their participation in the design process (mainly in aspects of coordinating expectations - you cannot be disappointed by something that you see is coming), a good talk will help you with one of the most exciting principles in the shared sibling room design process - personality assimilation, design-wise.

The rationale underlying this principle is that your home should reflect who you are as a person, and it's highly recommended to inject some "You" into your home walls, design-wise. 

For instance, if your child loves a particular color, you can incorporate it into the room's color scheme. If they have a favorite hobby, you can create a space dedicated to it. It will make the room more personalized and foster a sense of ownership and responsibility in your children.

Here's a great article by Martha Stewart about the practicalities of embedding personality in your home design.

One final tip in this regard - Once you have decided to accept our recommendations and hear them out, do yourself a favor and try to listen properly!

Don't let them express themselves just to quiet your conscience (and their need to express themselves...). Once they are involved in the process - they are all in!

Children must know their opinions are heard and respected. That doesn't mean you must agree with their every whim (you don't) - just listen respectfully.

 

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4. Reading/Learning Space.

 

One of the most critical aspects of any shared sibling room is the space dedicated to learning/reading.

Don't underestimate the power of a learning/reading area in your child's room. It's not just a space, it's a catalyst for their educational development. This is a commitment worth making. 

 

Learning space is critical!

 

For those of you concerned about unnecessary expenses, rest assured. You don't need to go all out! A simple table and a comfortable chair in a designated and noticeable area will suffice.

The key is to make it clear to your kids - 'This is your learning/reading spot!'

Here, you'll find all the resources you need to create a conducive learning/reading space. We're here to guide you, even when it comes to dealing with contractors and managing home renovation stress.

Undoubtedly, smart conduct in these contexts will help you with your efforts to design a shared room for your siblings.



 

We hope this article - 'Ways To Create A Bedroom Siblings Will Want to Share - Shared Sibling Room - How Do I Do It Right?' - will be a valuable resource in your family design challenge. And if you have any more questions on the matter, please feel free to reach out. We're here to help.

As mentioned above, the principles presented in this article are not limited by the gender or age differences of the siblings. They are designed to be applicable in all reasonable contexts, including those unique to your family. Apply them wisely, and your children will benefit from the whole thing in a big way.

Take our word for it.

And if nothing else works, boarding school is always a reasonable option.

Just kidding...

 

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